Hi! I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have a strong relationship and an active sex life, I thought, but recently I found out that he watches porn. I know that is a normal thing, but it wasn't so much het porn so much as just girls masturbating. And it hurt my feelings and I haven't been able to get over it. Any advice?
Anonymous
Well, first I would try talking to your boyfriend about it. Tell him how you feel, and ask him how he feels, etc. Having a conversation about it is probably the best way to deal with it.
However, there is nothing wrong with watching porn. Many people do it, and it isn’t a problem unless it interferes with daily life because he is watching it so often (in which case it wold be an addiction). Just because your partner watches it does not mean there is anything wrong with your relationship, your sex life, or their satisfaction with either.
