Because I am a Woman

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yesmeansyes Asks:

Regarding the individual who just wrote in about boyfriend watching girls masturbating - that might be something that you should consider incorporating into your sex life with him, because it obviously turns him on. Knowing what porn your significant other watches can sometimes help you figure out what they're interested in doing in bed. Next time you start to fool around, offer to touch yourself in front of him and see what he says. Maybe it'll be the best sex you've ever had! Good luck :)

becauseiamawoman Said:

Thanks for bringing this up! I was going to suggest this, and it was what I was leading to by saying to start a conversation. Perhaps it is what their boyfriend would like. However, I am hesitant to tell anyone to do something without discussing the underlying issues first. The reason many people watch porn is not because something is missing from their sex life. Some people simply like to watch porn. If someone is uncomfortable with their partner doing so, and the partner still wants to there is going to be a problem that incorporating new things into your sex life cannot fix.