"I would again suggest addressing the underlying issues around porn in your relationships before condemning your partner for watching something that quite frankly may have nothing to do with you." EXACTLY. I never understand when girls tell me that they don't let their boyfriends watch porn or go to strip clubs. Set boundaries, talk about it, but know that IT IS NORMAL. He probably sometimes imagines other people and you might too if you were comfortable with your sexuality. Cheating is not...
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CONTINUED:” … Watching porn or looking at strippers (not saying I’d encourage my man to pay for a lap dance but that’s just me and the boundaries we have). I have been to the strip club with my boyfriend before! And for me its fun! Does that make me less of a feminist? I don’t think so. It isn’t against their consent, it isn’t harming anyone, and in some ways it may even be empowering for the women. THEY determine who touches them, what they do, etc. What is normal for one person may not be normal for me “
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