Because I am a Woman

I am truly sorry you have to deal with this, I know how difficult it must be. Unfortunately I don’t have any advice that a doctor would not have already given you. If you haven’t already, I would definitely suggest getting a second or third opinion until you find something something that helps. Hang in there!

I recommend talking to someone. If you don’t feel comfortable telling your friends or family that is okay. Perhaps you might try speaking to a support hotline or a therapist. If you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to email me at becauseiamawoman.tumblr@gmail.com.

I know that a lot of my followers also have experience dealing with similar situations, and I’m sure many of them would also love to talk with you and share what has helped them. Check back in the replies to this post and I’m sure you will find the support you need!

If you can’t live with these side effects then it may be time to give up on Nexplanon. If you experience heavy bleeding as the result of Nexplanon, you should be aware that it is also a very common side effect of the Depo shot. I would recommend something like Mirena if you are interested in having a much lighter period, or the NuvaRing or the pill if you want a regular period. No matter what you decide, make sure you speak with your doctor about the way your body is reacting to Nexplanon. 

The cup is meant to shape to the inside of your body, so when it is inserted it won’t be the exact same shape as when you are holding it before putting it in. If it isn’t opening all the way and making a seal, try putting it in just so the bottom sits at the vaginal entrance. Twist the cup as you push it in farther and do some kegels to get it into the right place. It should open up on its own at that point. Running your fingers along the rim while its inserted and after you’ve made the seal could potentially break that seal if you aren’t careful. If there is no leaking you’re probably doing it right!

Since I’m not a student in the sexual health field, (my field of study is communications, more specifically, health advocacy communications and marketing), it is hard for me to give you an accurate look at what a student of sexual health/sex therapy would be reading. I would suggest contacting some real sex educators and asking them for some resources that might help. If you haven’t already, there might also be some helpful resources in my Resource Section. 

I’ve had a couple of negative side effects from my IUD. The main issue I’ve had has been cramps, which I never really experienced prior to getting my Mirena. Besides that I’ve had mild acne issues and bloating but that is just about it. 

If you are already susceptible to yeast infections, discussing the way that the IUD might interact with your body is very important. PID with IUDs most commonly develops in people who have STIs, which is one of the reasons you must get tested prior to having one inserted. Generally, it is rare to develop PID from the IUD.